Monday, February 25, 2008

Something new


So, my locks are coming in very nicely. They are untamed and beautiful! I really do enjoy having them. I like to feel them with my fingers and acknowledge the diversity in their structure.



But, as wonderful as they are...I still like having the option of being undercover. So, I have been trying my hand in African head wrapping. I had Jesse snap a pic of my most recent try at a cinnabon.




I love the way the fabric feels all wrapped up on my head. It gives you the feeling of wearing a crown. I truly feel like a queen. I am going to try a few other wraps but this one has been my favorite so far.

Monday, February 18, 2008

Perfect and ordinary

Sometimes I feel like my births just aren't dramatic enough to post about. Most of the births I attend are perfect and ordinary. Isn't that the way they were meant to be? Birth is a natural, spiritual and beautiful thing yet it is just another part of the life cycle.
I had my first repeat client this winter. Which is really an honor. I met J and her husband about 2 years ago. They had planned an unassisted birth but, things weren't happening how they planned. So, they called around looking for a midwife to help them. We came to that call. Things turned out beautifully in the end. I think the stall was emotional. This time around I did all the prenatal care and they called me when J started labor. I arrived, set up my equipment, and waited. J was glowing and was simply a Goddess. She handled labor with ease. Just before midnight J said that she felt something change. So, I grabbed my pin light to take a look and I could see the top of the babies head. Soon the head was crowning, then her whole head. The membranes were still in tact so I reached into the water and gently broke the sack. Moments later we saw the whole baby slip into the water. I reached for the baby to help bring her to the surface of the water. I saw then that she had a double nucal cord. That made no difference, she became alert in a matter of seconds. It was a gentle, wonderful birth day for Evelyn Violet.

I feel so blessed to be a part of such great uncomplicated births. I don't know if it is simply karma or if it is because I am so intent on being hands off. Either way I thank the creator for all that I see and know. I am grateful for the families that allow me into their lives in such a sweet and trusting way.